After posting the previous blog (here), I received the same objection
from several people. Thus, I would like to respond to it formally.
I stated that if it really came down to persecution of
Christians or persecution of homosexuals, it would be the most Christ-like
response for we Christians to choose our own.
The main objection I got goes something like this:
By standing against homosexuality, we are not persecuting them,
but are rather declaring God’s truth, that they are sinning. Furthermore, we
must be the responsible citizens who are going to stand up and fight for truth.
It has nothing to do with persecution.
(If I could state it better, let me know and I’ll alter my
wording)
You may not think
it is persecution, but it is persecution in the eyes of homosexuals and of
millions of others.
Sure, you could say that we are supposed to present the
truth and they can call it what they like, but you’d be missing the point of
ministry, and missing the point of God’s truth.
Would a good minister disregard how he/she comes across to those he/she is ministering to?
Paul knew the importance of presenting the Gospel in a way
in which his audience could understand and appreciate (Acts 17:16–34).
Furthermore, Christ came to save sinners with his love, not
to condemn them into following him.
I was watching a documentary about homosexuality and the
church, and in it there was a real story of a Christian mother who found out
her daughter was a lesbian. The mother was devastated and told the daughter
that, though she would never stop loving her, she could never accept that and
would always hate it about her (like “love the sinner, hate the sin”). This
mother, in her eyes, was just telling her daughter God’s truth.
A few months later, her daughter committed suicide.
When I got to that part of the story, I couldn't help but cry. And I know Jesus also cried.
When I got to that part of the story, I couldn't help but cry. And I know Jesus also cried.
We have to learn how to better minister to homosexuals. We
have to learn that the way so many Christians adamantly stand against
homosexuality makes homosexuals feel persecuted.
When we put up our signs that say “Homosexuality is an
abomination,” we are, in their eyes, persecuting them. Doing this will not only
cause many to reject God completely, but it can and does make people feel
horrible.
This is not at all what Christ looked like.
Not only did Jesus dine with sinners, but they were drawn to
him! There was something about him they wanted to pursue.
This drove the Pharisees crazy, because they sought to be
moral guardians. They were the ones standing against others because of their
sin.
Christ knew how ineffective and unloving this was. Christ
was someone who stood with sinners,
not against them.
Furthermore, Paul said, “What business is it of mine to judge those outside of the Church?” (1 Cor. 5:12).
If it isn’t our business to judge the
sins of those who are outside the Church, why are we making it our business?
Christianity shouldn't inspire someone to commit suicide.
Christianity should be marked by a salvific, transforming love that inspires people to become disciples of the beautiful Christ.
For that to happen, we need to get rid of our moral guardian mindsets and stop making it our business to judge the sins of others.
Love does not delight in evil, and nor does love keep a record of sins.
Rather, Love rejoices with the truth, always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres; and it never fails.
We should be focusing more on practicing these qualities towards sinners than trying to make their sins illegal (especially if we’re not willing to make our own sins illegal).