The Blog of Jack Holloway

Wednesday, January 17, 2018

The 23 Best Films of 2017

23. Landline

22. Three Billboards outside Ebbing, Missouri

21. The Disaster Artist



20. The Lego Batman Movie


19. Get Out


18. Personal Shopper

17. The Square

16. The Big Sick




15. mother!


14. Lady Bird 

13. Detroit

12. Baby Driver


11. Blade Runner 2049 

10. The Florida Project



9. I, Tonya

8. A Ghost Story


7. Molly's Game 


6. Dunkirk


5. Good Time 


4. The Beguiled

3. Phantom Thread 

2. Lady Macbeth


1. The Killing of a Sacred Deer

Friday, December 22, 2017

Give Your Son a Barbie

When I was a kid, I read Nancy Drew books. Well, that was before my mom gave me The Hardy Boys, the boy counterpart to Nancy Drew. But if my memory serves me accurately, I liked the Nancy Drew books more than I like The Hardy Boys, but I felt like I had to read The Hardy Boys because those books are for boys. Now, I wish I had gone with my own preferences and read Nancy Drew.

This week I was in Seattle visiting my family, and I got the chance to spend some time with my 3-year-old nephew Landon. At one point, we were watching Batman Beyond, and in my ignorance I asked if the woman in the super-suit was Batgirl or Batwoman. Landon answered that it was Batgirl, Barbara ("Bah-bah"). "Batgirl," he added adorably, "is Batman's best friend."

The next day, I was Christmas shopping at Toys-R-Us, and seeing that he knew so much about Batgirl, and already had plenty of Batman toys, I wanted to buy Landon a Batgirl action figure. My sister, however, objected, essentially saying that Batgirl figurines are for girls. Ignoring her, I went for the DC section, but there were no Batgirl action figures there. "Oh well," I thought, "I'll just get him something else." That was, until I happened to pass the Barbie section later, and saw multiple Batgirl action figures.

I picked up a Batgirl with a Batjet, overlooking the Batgirl barbie beside it. When I got to my sister to put it in the cart, she was on the phone with her husband, who informed her that Landon had specifically asked for a Batgirl action figure. Vindicated, I happily bought it and thought highly of myself. "I'm a good a feminist. I bought my nephew a Batgirl action figure. This will encourage him to look up to women action heroes."

I went home, wrapped the present, and then gave it to him to open, since I was leaving that night. He was so ecstatic, jumping up and down, and shouting that it was what he wanted. And of course it is always satisfying to come to know that you have perceived correctly and acquired the perfect gift, so I was also ecstatic.

But then something strange happened. Landon's two best friends are girls, and my sister and her husband purchased a Batgirl barbie for one of them, named JJ (which, by the way, is the name I went by as a kid). And when Landon opened his present and saw an awesome Batgirl action figure, he was happy, but also remarked that he wanted the one JJ was going to get--the barbie. This was the same barbie I saw at the store. I didn't think once to buy it for him, because barbies are for girls!

Landon, it turns out, might be more of a feminist than I am. His best friends are girls, and he has a handful of independent, strong women surrounding him. When his dad speaks of "bro time," Landon speaks of "girl-bro time." (I'm not kidding. He actually came up with that.) And when his mom and uncle think he wouldn't like a Batgirl barbie because such things are for girls, Landon wholeheartedly disagrees, because Batgirl is one of his favourite superheroes.

I hope this continues. I hope Landon continues to look up to women the same way he looks up to men, and defy stereotypes by liking both "masculine" and "feminine" things. I can now say that my 3-year-old nephew shows that these categories, these divisions, are unstable and inaccurate. Men are not naturally, inherently one way, and women another. Nancy Drew is not for girls while The Hardy Boys are for boys. Batman is not for boys while Batgirl is for girls.

We need to be more sensitive to what children are actually like, listening to them to understand who they are and what they are like, instead of imposing standards, divisions, and categories on them, like Toys-R-Us does with its toy divisions, operating under old presuppositions about what boys "are" and what girls "are," and so separating DC boy toys from Barbie girl toys.

Maybe your son wants a barbie for Christmas. Maybe your daughter wants an action figure. This week I learned not to ask what "boys and girls are like," but to ask what this child is like.

Thursday, December 14, 2017

The 80 Best Songs of 2017

80. "The Combine" by John Maus

79. "The Pathways of Our Lives" by Mark Barrott

78. "Thomas County Law" by Iron & Wine

77. "Need to Feel Your Love" by Sheer Mag

76. "Asido" by Purity Ring

75. "Sugarboy" by St. Vincent

74. "Bad Liar" by Selena Gomez

73. "Like a Woman" by Kacy Hill

72. "Particle" by Hundred Waters

71. "Currency" by Hundred Waters

70. "Tinseltown Swimming in Blood" by Destroyer

69. "Chariot" by Beach House

68. "Butterfly Prowler" by Clark

67. "On Lankershim" by Foxygen

66. "See You in Hell" by Electric Wizard

65. "Already Naked" by Blondie

64. "Silver Velvet" by The Courtneys

63. "Your Type" by Alvvays

62. "Darling" by Real Estate

61. "Baybee" by Jay Som

60. "The Weekend" by SZA

59. "LMK" by Kelela

58. "Boys" by Charli XCX

57. "Omaha" by Toro y Moi

56. "On Hold" by The xx

55. "Bird" by Kelly Lee Owens

54. "Rest" by Charlotte Gainsbourg

53. "Piel" by Arca

52. "Santa's in the Closet" by Ariel Pink

51. "My Old Man" by Mac Demarco

50. "Right Now" by HAIM

49. "Over Everything" by Courtney Barnett & Kurt Vile

48. "Everything Now" by Arcade Fire

47. "PuNoni (feat. GOVALES) by Chewii

46. "Biscuit Town" by King Krule

45. "Watering" by Big Thief

44. "Dreams Tonite" by Alvvays

43. "Mercury" by Sufjan Stevens, James McAlister, Nico Muhly, and Bryce Dessner

42. "No Plan" by David Bowie

41. "Beach Life-In-Death" by Car Seat Headrest

40. "Arkhipov Calm" by Converge

39. "Transmission" by Pharmakon

38. "Slip Away" by Perfume Genius

37. "Migration" by Bonobo

36. "You and I" by Toro y Moi

35. "In Undertow" by Alvvays

34. "Replica" by The xx

33. "Truth" by Kamasi Washington

32. "Arisen My Senses (feat. Arca)" by Bjork

31. "Cave" by Future Islands

30. "Hierophant" by King Woman

29. "Follow My Voice" by Julie Byrne

28. "Tears on Fire" by Ariel Pink & Weyes Blood

27. "Static Buzz" by Snail Mail

26. "american dream" by LCD Soundsystem

25. "Sanctuary" by Elder

24. "The Highest Flood" by Forest Swords

23. "Dum Surfer" by King Krule

22. "Rain Come Down" by Vince Staples

21. "Slow Motion" by Jane Weaver

20. "Through the Roses" by Future Islands

19. "call the police" by LCD Soundsystem

18. "Hard to Say Goodbye" by Washed Out

17. "Man of Oil" by Animal Collective

16. "Deadly Valentine" by Charlotte Gainsbourg

15. "Only Once Away My Son" by Brian Eno & Kevin Shields

14. "If You're Here" by Cornelius

13. "Blue Train Lines (feat. King Krule)" by Mount Kimbie

12. "Slomo" by Slowdive

11. "Passionfruit" by Drake 

10. "HUMBLE." by Kendrick Lamar

9. "Another Weekend" by Ariel Pink

8. "Nothing to Find" by The War on Drugs

7. "Coraje" by Arca

6. "DNA." by Kendrick Lamar

5. "Feels Like Heaven" by Ariel Pink

4. "Can't Help It" by Baba Stiltz

3. "Thinning" by Snail Mail

2. "Thinking of a Place" by The War on Drugs

1. "Sugar for the Pill" by Slowdive